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My boyfriend lost his vision in Afghanistan while deployed and his friends invited him to a batchelor party and he doesn't want to go?

My boyfriend lost his vision in Afghanistan during deployment, he's been blind for five years. He is active he takes classes like Brazilian ju jittsu and the trainer modifies it for his needs. I love him and his love of life amd we have been through so much together. My boyfriend told me he was invited to a batchellor party weekend in Nashville but he doesn't want to go. he knows his friends care about him but it feels weird that they pity him because he can tell in their tone

It is his prerogative to decide not to go!
https://youtu.be/Pe6nK-DrQyw

I've passed on a few bachelorette parties myself because they were going to go on for days. That's expensive and nuts. If he doesn't want to go there is no reason he should. What's the problem and the question? Man gets to do what he wants.