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Advice for this guy I went on one date with? Confused and a little heartbroken...?

So I'm about 21, met this guy on grindr. We chatted on the app for like 2 weeks before we decided to meet up in the park. We met, talked for hours, walked around. I thought that it went really well. We came to this secluded area and he kissed me and it was great. We made out there for a long time. We eventually had to leave and he seemed almost hesitant to go. So correct me if I'm wrong but it would seem like it was a successful first date and should lead to another date.

He gave me his number but I didn't text him after, I just talked to him on grindr again. He told me he had fun and I was even cuter in person. Well about a week goes by, I don't talk to him much, and I notice he deleted his grindr account. He didn't block me I have made new accounts to see and he just hasn't been on. I assume he deleted his account and then the app.

So I try texting the number he gave me, but I get no response. And I'm just not sure what to do. Maybe he needed a break from guys and that's why he deleted his grindr. Or maybe he just didn't like me for whatever reason or maybe I wrote his number wrong.

I'm just sad because I thought we really got along and had so much to talk about and had instant chemistry. Definitely the best guy I've met so far. It's just sad it's not gonna work out. But what do you think? What should I do?

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