Mines means happy. I'm not sure if it has any significance to my personality considering I have my extreme happy weeks or my extreme sad weeks, it's never mild. I was just thinking of this the other day too. There's a hadith that says that when a child is born it is written whether the child will be happy or sad (in the end of their life) and so if I end up being happy, I think it'd be kinda cool cause that's my name and if (God forbid) thatI don't end up happy, it'd be ironic considering my name means happy.
Directive influence is when you are influencing someone with your own natural instincts. For example, a 5 yr old girl sees her mother bottle feeding a baby, this 5 yr old girl will imitate the mother and do the same to her baby doll. Directive influence is unplanned and natural.
Strategic influence is planned unlike directive influence. You have to think your ways first. In some ways, you could say this is a bit like manipulating. For example, a Mathematics teacher thinks of a way on how to teach standard deviation, in which there are two ways to do it. The teacher would prefer her students to use the easier one, of course, so she emphasizes on how better this equation is until her students agree.
Hope that helps!